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How To Provide a Positive Consultation

Written by: Angela Pennington  www.angelapennington.com
Published: ACVA Newsletter March 21, 2010

Having accurate knowledge of astrological information is the foundation of  a competent astrologer.   In the Brihat Samhita Vol. I, Chapter II “Cannons for Astrologer”, Varahamihira narrates at length about the abilities of a well versed astrologer,  broadening the scope beyond the understanding of the constellations, planets and houses.

Varahamihira breaks down these attributes in the following way:  qualifications, virtues, astronomical calculations, measurements of time, science of astrology, understanding of sacred texts and words of power. For the purposes of this article we will look more closely at the “qualifications and virtues” of an astrologer as these factors managed and developed correctly will aid the astrologer in building a strong character and consulting practice.

Over the course of my study at ACVA, I’ve heard different students asking the same question:  “How do we  create a positive atmosphere and empower our clients even in dire circumstances?”

An insightful question. Varahamihira essentially devoted a chapter to conduct and presentation in the Brihat Samhita,  most likely, students of old as well as new, have given deep thought to the aforementioned.  After all, our thought process here effects how we set up our consulting practice and build professional relationships with our clients.    A powerful question deserving an in-depth investigation.  My exploration began in sacred text, moved to “CVA Ethical Standards and Guidelines” (ACVA 2002) and ended with ACVA teachers who generously offered their expertise from years of operating their own astrological practices.    After reviewing, comparing, distilling advice and verse, the following list of Do’s and Dont’s have been compiled for your review and contemplation:

DO create a Positive Impression:
1. Take care of our appearance; maintain good health,  be well groomed and modest in dress.
2. Establish clear and respectful professional boundaries.
3. Be organized, on time and alert.

DO create a Positive Atmosphere:
1. Working from home or office; keep the work space organized and clean.
2. Before client meetings, prepare your mind; do a meditation, invoke spiritual guidance.

DO properly Prepare for Meeting:
1. Connect with clients prior to meeting;  get clear as to the purpose of the consultation. At this time, it’s important to really listen to what the client is saying and ask them questions.
2. Make sure you have the correct birth information.
3. Take time and explain to the client astrological limitations and the importance of free will and karma.
4. Charts, computers, recorders and other materials should be set up and ready.
5. Clear the consultation space, have an extra pen and paper available,  keep beverages on hand.
6. Language; avoid vulgarity, use empowering words, keep astrological jargon to a minimum. (clients want to learn about their personal situation not astrology per se).
7. Accentuate the clients talents and natural abilities.
8. Be honest with upcoming obstacles, describe them and offer remedial measures.

“The predications made by an astrologer who has mastered both the theory and practice of the science of astrology, and astronomy …… inscribed in his intellect and firmly implanted in his heart, will never go wrong.”    – Varahamhira

According to  Varahamira integrity and pure intention are of great importance.  An astrologer must be humble, respect deity and the sages who passed us sacred knowledge.  We must remain free of judgement and work towards the greatest good for those who seek the wisdom of the stars.     With respect to these teachings, modern day Jyotishi’s strongly advise we DO NOT predict; divorce, disease and death.  Predicting these subjects create a negative mindset and disempower people.

Lastly, an ACVA teacher told me about the importance of not giving too much information in one session.  For example, covering multiple topics in one session may not be appropriate.  The human mind can only take in and digest a certain amount.  It’s important to build relationships with clients and when appropriate suggest follow up meetings.

As astrologers, continued work on our own spiritual development is essential.  We are eternal students and teachers -  all working towards the same enlightenment.

For more information on Astrologer etiquette please read the following articles:

Ethical Standards and Guidelines, ACVA 2002
Qualities and Qualifications of a Vedic Astrologer by Chakrapani Ullal
Vedic Astrology and Transpersonal Counseling by Dennis M. Harness, PH.D.

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Magickal Blue and Black Moons

Every month the Moon makes a journey around the earth. This is called a lunar month or lunation.  A lunar month is on average 29.53 days. The Moon cycle is shorter than most of the calendar months. So eventually, the phase of the Moon at the very beginning of the month will repeat itself at the end of the month. This creates a second full or dark moon in the same calendar month. Typically, there are 12 lunation’s per year, but every 2.7 years we get an additional lunation for a total of 13 lunar months.

I was surprised to learn that the term “Blue Moon” has been used for around 400 years but has only had a calendrical association for about 25 years. Bottom line, its definition of being the second full moon in one month is a modern definition applied to a very old term. If you would like to read more about the history of the term, check out this article on Sky and Telescope Magazine:

Once in a Blue Moon by Philip Hiscock
http://www.skyandtelescope.com/observing/objects/moon/3305141.html

Blue and Black Moon’s are sacred to the modern witch.  A Blue Moon is the second full moon in a lunar month and from a magical perspective brings added energy for spiritual work involving growth of all kinds. Whatever we harness the energy for, it has strength and purpose.  Under this moon, I like to set crystals outside overnight for cleansing.  One of my favorite things to do is make Blue Moon Water.

Blue Moon Water Recipe

Use a glass or crystal bowl
Add a Moonstone, Crystal, Rose Quartz
Fill the bowl with filtered water
Bless and consecrate the bowl of water
Set outside overnight where the light of the Moon will fill the bowl

The next day, with clean hands, carefully remove your crystals. Pour the water into a clean glass container. Store in a cool dark place.  The water can be used to drink, bathe, add to a spell or pour into a spray bottle to asperage your home. The water will amp up whatever it is exposed too.  Use the water before it begins to create new life.  Another twist is to add a Floral Hydrosol to the water. The scent is magical!

A Black Moon is the second dark moon in a lunar month. This is an incredible time to do personal development work. Maybe it’s time to let go of an outdated thought process or release an emotion. This energy is a deep journey inward towards self discovery. A great time for dreaming!

Auroramane’s Dream Spell

Find a feather and pick a sprig of Rosemary
Blow on it gently three times. Recite the following incantation:

Dark Mother of the black and mystic sea
Open the door and reveal to me ….
{state clearly the topic to which you need truth}

Place the Rosemary and feather under your pillow, go to sleep and receive an answer to your question.  I hope you enjoyed this information!

How To Quiet the Western Monkey Mind

In a world filled with video games, computers and candy, its no wonder spiritual people are struggling to learn meditation. In 2004, I had the privilege of learning beginning meditation from a Buddhist Monk. Through the Venerable, I gained valuable insights and learned solid techniques. By combining the Buddhist system and my own personal solutions to challenges, I offer these simple tools to help beginners quiet their mind and begin the process of a meditation practice.

Preparation

The Commitment
Meditation is a practice, we must work at it to experience results. The good news is that with regular practice results are quick. Make a commitment: 10 to 15 minutes in the morning and evening each day.

Creating Space
Its important to have a special place to sit quietly. This could be in a room next to a window, a converted closet or under a tree. Wherever the space, feel safe and secure.

Tools
People experienced in meditation do not need aids. However, western beginners do. Two things will really help. A small blanket to stay warm and a meditation cushion. If you have issues with movement, use a chair with a solid back. If you do not have a meditation cushion, grab a small firm pillow and place a folded blanket over the top. The idea is that your bum will be slightly lifted and this will promote comfort, a straight back and concentration.

Giving Ourselves Permission
Westerners have a tough time sitting still for very long. Socially, we’ve been taught idleness is laziness. Not true. We must prepare by giving ourselves permission to sit quietly. Go to your sacred space, get comfortable, and say out loud:

“I give myself permission to sit in silence. I embrace meditation as part of a healthy lifestyle. I honor myself”. 

Continue by repeating this silently to yourself.  Sit quietly and get to know your sacred space.

Visualization
A Yoga Monk taught me this technique to help me center into a meditative place:
Spend some time thinking about a place you visited in nature, where you were happy.  Hold this image in your mind. This will be your personal starting point in meditation.  If you get stressed out at work, bring this image into your mind and you will feel calm.

Hand position
Place your right hand inside of your left, so the tip of your thumbs are touching each other. Hold this position while meditating.

Beginning Meditation

- Turn of the cell phone, computer, television and radio.
- Go to your sacred space.
- Sit down, get comfortable.
- Wrap the blanket around you if needed.
- Say a prayer or mantra in harmony with your spiritual beliefs.
- Become aware of your breath.
- Inhale and exhale until you feel centered.
- Place your hands in position.
- Center into your visualization.  If your mind moves to a higher place, allow it.
- When you have completed your meditation close with a prayer.

If your mind wanders, re-commit to your visualization.
If your legs go numb, power through, eventually this will pass.
If you start to feel itchy, don’t scratch, just re-commit to your vision.
Discomforts will come up, its the EGO trying to stop you.

Special Notes
- Do not eat a heavy meal prior to meditation.
- Do drink water.
- Make sure you are clean before entering your sacred space.
- Some people feel they need “white noise”.  In the beginning, if you really need to have sound, play a cd with the sound of water. If you play music, you’re not really quieting the mind.

Hopefully, these techniques will help you quiet the noise in your mind and prepare you for a more serious meditation practice.  Please know,  you can go to ANY Buddhist Temple and ask to learn meditation, the Monks and Nuns will greet you happily.

OM Shanti, Shanti, Shanti

 

 

Viewing 2013 Through Tarot

2013 is a powerful year of change. We have moved through an old cycle and folks are ready to start rebuilding. The rising Sun on Solstice 2012, inspired us to move beyond past limitations and embrace new lives. At the same time, new vibrations are requiring responsible action. Be prepared to release false belief systems and develop moral character.

On Solstice, the Sun rose in Sagittarius, the corresponding Tarot card is Temperance. This card is commonly depicted with an angel pouring water from one vessel to another, while the Sun rises in the background. Fire and water feature prominently. The imagery  delivers several important messages. The most notable; becoming aware of our higher self and allowing the wisdom of the higher mind to pour into our conscious mind. To achieve this aim, we must balance fire and water in several ways;

- Resolve anger issues and the tendency to be over emotional.
- Learn non-violent language skills.
- Learn to give and receive in equal proportion without expectation.
- Learn sexual control; sexuality tempered, spiritual fire of kundalini ignited.

This is a “Dark Night” gateway, exposing the reality of self induced illusion and the fragility of an ego centered life. By balancing these elements, we create an alchemical change within our physical body and a rebirth occurs. As we develop ourselves through Temperance, we learn how to work with others harmoniously, and begin to release our materialistic identity. Mastering this card brings us into a state of humility.

Opposite Sagittarius is the air sign of Gemini, corresponding to The Lovers. In this card we find the myth of Eros and Psyche, the divine union of love and desire. Many call this the Twin Flame reunion. I believe a more accurate description would be the reunion of the anima and animus (inner twin flame). The balancing of masculine and feminine energy within oneself. This balancing is not easy because the qualities of air bring confusion to the mind. We must remove the lies we tell ourselves and others which keep us bound and unable to express our divine nature. The Lovers implies sexuality, struggles and challenges as well as the condition of our relationship. The Lovers indicates choices to be made.

Making this year unique, is the 2012 Solstice Sun alignment to the center of the Milky Way Galaxy. Many view this alignment as a portent, a vibrational shift raising the consciousness of humanity. In the center of the Milky Way, is a massive black hole, four million times the mass of the Sun. From an esoteric stand point, the Sun represents our divine fire and intelligence. It makes sense to look into the center of our inner galaxy, finding and releasing the false belief systems hiding in the dark crevices of our minds. By doing so, we can radiate our spiritual light like the Lion. This can only be achieved through balance and honesty. It requires courage to make choices in alignment with our  higher spiritual self because these choices come from our heart not our mind.

By making  new choices in alignment with our higher self, we walk with nature. Our needs are met and we find happiness.

Astrologically, we are feeling the impulse to draw inward and explore our own inner mystery.  Movement through dance and yoga release old patterns from our physical memory. Kirtan (singing mantra) and en-toning helps clear our throat, connecting us to our higher self and universe. Devotion to whomever you pray, builds the qualities of humility and reverence.

The sacredness of water is going to come to the forefront as many begin to understand its true nature and power. Go with the flow, do not worry about material possessions. Build meaningful relationships. Be at peace.

 

Reclaiming The Voice Part 2: Causes, Symptoms And Cures

Reclaiming The Voice Part 2: Causes, Symptoms And Cures

The throat chakra allows us to communicate and listen effectively. We understand when it’s appropriate to speak, and repeat what we learn with accuracy. Clairaudience, the ability to hear on the subtle etheric and astral planes, happens through this energy center.

The developmental stage of the throat chakra is between the ages of 7 to 12 years. These formative years are a time of learning to express ourselves intellectually and creatively. If we receive mixed messages and live in an environment of lies, yelling,  criticism or feeling threatened, we begin to withdraw and the fullness of our voice becomes lost.

Common signs of a closed throat chakra include: poor listening skills, talking excessively and loud, not speaking and talking too quiet to hear, gossiping, lying, yelling and using excessive expletives. Some of these qualities may be excessive and some deficient. I’ve noticed all will be present to some degree if the throat is closed. Outcome, a closed throat disables our ability to communicate with the world around us. The results are hard to miss as the inability to express feelings effect all areas of life. In the  aftermath, boundaries are unclear, singing is left to the shower and poetic expression is unheard of.

To release blockages, we can draw on a variety of skills. Depending on individual needs some of these techniques will be more effective than others. In my opinion, healing can be seperated into two parts:

Part I – Learn Communication Skills
Part II – Clear The Energy

Part I Learn Communication Skills

To practice healthy communication techniques, we need to know what we don’t know.  At this point, education is key. Read books, watch videos go to classes and talk to people who demonstrate strong communication styles. Through education, we can begin to logically identify bad habits and start to adopt positive skills.

At the end of this blog, I have included a list of helpful books and keywords.

Part II – Clear the Energy

Here are helpful techniques:

(1) A blocked throat leads to health issues like sore throat, tightness in the jaw, headaches, stiff shoulders and neck. Begin exercises to loosen the neck and shoulders.

(2) The color for the throat chakra is a turquoise or bright blue. There are many stones to work with, but here are a few to wear, carry or meditate with: Turquoise, Aquamarine, Blue Topaz, Blue Quartz, Celestite, Blue tourmaline, Chrysoprase.

(3) Two or three times a day recite an affirmation. The throat affirmation presented here is from the book “Heal Your Body” by Louise Hay:

It’s okay to make noise.  I express myself freely and joyously. I speak up for myself with ease. I express my creativity. I am willing to change.

(4) Each chakra has a specific seed sound. The seed sound for the throat is HAM.  Pronounced with a long A as in the word “mantra”. Intone the sound HAM everyday, you’ll know you’ve got it right when the sound vibrates in your throat.

(5) Personal Dialoging. Frequently, old wounds will get stirred up. Sit by yourself and say the things you want or need too.  Complete conversations. Journal.

(6) Sit in silence.

(7) Reiki or Shamanic healing will help clear out old energy as you loosen it up.

Lastly, to open the throat, it is necessary to resolve anger issues from childhood. Please visit a previous blog I wrote called: Subdue Anger and Harness Personal Power.

Here are some keywords to attract the right information online: nonviolent communication, conflict resolution, setting boundaries, reading body language, interpersonal communication styles, listening skills, meditation.

Bibliography:
“Eastern Body, Western Mind” Author Anodea Judith
“The Sevenfold Journey, Reclaiming Mind, Body, Spirit Through The Chakras”
Authors Anodea Judith and Selene Vega
“Heal Your Body” by Louise Hay

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Reclaiming The Voice Part 1: My Story

August 28, 2012

When I became aware my throat chakra was closed, it took upwards of ten years to clear and open. To reclaim our voices, we need to understand how we were silenced. Here is my story:

As a child I had strong view points and opinions rarely welcomed by my Father. I grew up hearing catchphrases like “don’t speak until your spoken too” and “just ignore it.”   My Mother was a little different. She never restricted my reading material, always encouraged free thought and then made comments like, “let’s keep those thoughts to ourselves”. At the time, my young parents were doing their best to pay the bills, feed us and keep their kids out of trouble. They were not equipped to manage a creative and outspoken kid whose thoughts did not mirror social norms. Let’s face it, I viewed the world differently and my parents did not have the skills to deal with it. As a result, I learned anger, yelling and how to be quiet – not much in between.

As I grew up, it became obvious my communication style needed a change. I read every self improvement book I could find. By the time I made it to my early twenties I had discovered enough problem solving mechanisms to mitigate my issues. However, the throat remained closed. As a result these symptoms would show themselves at the worst time:

Upset, I kept quiet, until I was so angry I’d blow
Could not share my feelings
Trouble telling people “no”
Anything to avoid confrontation
Making fun of people
Creatively blocked
Could not sing, gossiped, yelling

In my mid-twenties, these issues were taking their toll on my marriage, so I went to see a psychologist. The best year of self care ever! My marriage did not survive counseling nor did we clear my throat. However, for the first time, I could see patterns, the impact of parental discipline and mentally organize childhood issues. I could also share my feelings. A huge step forward!

The real test and reality check came seventeen years ago on a fateful flight from Phoenix to Portland:

On this flight, there was a man named “John” whom I had never met. John was seated next to me. Thirty minutes into the flight, he asked me to kiss him. I said “no”. This scenario played itself out multiple times. Like a good girl, and true to my childhood training, I ignored him. The man seated behind John, heard what was happening, kicked the back of John’s seat and hollered at him. Witnessing the altercation, the flight attendant immediately came over and moved John to a new seat. Problem solved.  Well, not exactly. My hero, the man who defended my honor, said to his wife, “ I don’t know why she didn’t do something about this herself”.  Whaa?!  I felt like he punched me in the gut. He was right, it was my responsibility to stand up for myself. In a split second, my life changed forever and I spent the remainder of my flight fighting back tears. To this day, remembering hurts, yet it opened the door to my ultimate healing.

Next week,  please join me. I’ll be sharing the Symptoms, Causes and Cures for a closed throat chakra.

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Inescapable Death

August 23, 2012

As I approach my forty seventh year, I find myself deep in thought, how my life has grown and changed! Over the years, there has been a huge emphasis on the cultivation of my heart and mind. As a result, I really don’t recognize the person I was ten, twenty or thirty years ago. My mind has never been more clear and my heart is open. Yet, there remains an inescapable realization; I’m at least halfway through this lifetime, maybe more.

People my age seem to drop dead unexpectedly from “natural” causes. A major heart attack from one too many McDonald’s French fries or liver damage from youthful partying. Whatever it is, one thing is common, we never really learn about someone until their dead. Perhaps it’s because in these times of changing social norms, funeral behavior has not changed, and heart centeredness is the only acceptable behavior.

At a funeral, everyone shares a special memory or act of kindness. We share the qualities we admired in the deceased. A beautiful ceremony where we learn how someone invested their time, love and money. Sadly, the deceased, being the guest of honor and highly criticized throughout their life, does not get to experience the kudos’.  A lesson to us all, tell loved ones and those who have positively had an impact on our lives, how important they are. It could change everything.

Personally, the legacy I want to leave behind is not about money. My hopes are people will remember me as; truthful, respectful, great sense of humor, loving, helpful, spiritual and an overall epic woman. Of course, it remains to be seen. There are lots people who think they know me. Truthfully, only a few actually do and they know who they are. My true family. They will pass my legacy properly and remember me each year as the wheel turns.

Death is imminent for all of us. The Lord of Death is “by the book”. If our name is written on the page dated today…. Well you understand.

Instead of worrying about how much time is left, I’m going to live each moment to it’s fullest.  As I look in the mirror, I’m going to focus, not on the subtle lines emerging, but on the radiant light of wisdom gained through knowledge and experience. As I watch gravity take greater hold of my tits, I recognize my power fully radiates from within. Each day, I get stronger in who I am becoming. My soul is growing and even though I’m still in good shape, this spiritual loaner car of a body has racked up miles and is technically wearing out.

It doesn’t matter how many years I have left, what matters is what I do with the remaining years. Definitely sounds cliche. My confidence is in knowing who I am on the deepest level. Each new situation opening up to me with ease or difficulty, will be greeted with an open mind and compassionate heart.

May we all enjoy a long and happy life!

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Crystal Cleansing and Communion

August 18, 2012

My love affair with crystals began when I owned a metaphysical store. Whether raw or cut, they are gorgeous and I feel a deep connection. Most crystals are magnetic and draw energy inwards. Whether in a toxic environment or calm household, crystals will store negative energies. This can make bright beautiful crystals cloudy and *feel* unclean. Over the years, I’ve been asked how to clean crystals. The following information is based on my experience through trial and error:

Moonlight, by far, is the best method I have discovered. Place your crystal in a safe place and leave outside on a full moon night. The moonlight will wash over the crystal gently releasing unwanted vibrations. The next morning, your crystal will be vibrant and sparkly!

If you don’t have time to wait for a full moon, another method is to place your crystal under cold running water for about 20 minutes or immerse the crystal in a cold bucket of water overnight. This method will cleanse but not to the same degree as moonlight.

Another good way, is to place the stone in a flower pot or on the ground. The idea is to let it sit in the soil. You do not need to bury it for the effect. One or two full days are sufficient.

The final method is very common and routinely over recommended. Use a teaspoon of salt in a quart of water, place the crystal in the water and leave it overnight. Please note: many crystals and minerals are salt sensitive and will actually pit or erode from exposure to salt. In my opinion, this is the absolute worst way to cleanse your beautiful crystals and not necessary ever.

Connecting and Communicating

In my experiences, many crystals have a Spirit or Guardian living within. Cleaning a crystal properly makes it happy – a perfect time to access it’s inner wisdom! For best results, never rush through this process. Make sure you have uninterrupted time.

For connecting and communicating with a crystal, here is a technique that works for me:

1. Take a few minutes in your sacred space to relax and connect to the universe. Do light a candle and incense if this aids your focus.

2. Hold the crystal in your left hand and sit quietly allowing yourself to experience it’s energy field. Do not rush. For the beginner, this takes some time.

3. When you *feel* a connection, ask the crystal if you may speak to it’s Spirit or Guardian. Continue to sit quietly.

4. Open your mind and allow the crystal to tell you the reason it has come into your life.

5. If no response on #4, let the crystal know how it can support the healing process you are working through.

6. Make sure you are clear on the message or intent. Kindly ask the Spirit to help you. Let the Spirit or Guardian know what methods they can use to work with you. For example, I regularly give permission for the Crystal Spirits to enter my meditation time because it’s a powerful mental and emotional state for me.

7. Remember, the Spirit or Guardian is bringing grace into your life. Be sure to give offerings of milk, honey, dates or other natural sweets as a gesture of gratitude.

Enjoy working with your crystals!

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Just Turn Off The Television

June 5, 2012

Stillness and solitude is a large part of my spiritual practice. Being in a quiet space allows me to think, contemplate and assimilate various facts, figures, conversations, emotions and other experiences that mold and shape my reality. Quiet time is essential in order for me to keep a balanced mind. My house is quiet. During the day, its very uncommon to hear the television or radio playing. I can’t imagine any other way to live.

Many people I’ve known over the years have commented to me, they wish they could spend as much time on their spiritual practice as I do. Every time I hear their comments I say, “You can, just turn off your television”.  They nod and say, “Oh yea, I don’t really watch it, its mainly background noise”.   WTF?

This statement bugs the hell out of me. Why would anyone want the television blaring as background noise? Does a baby mama screaming on Jerry Springer sound better than a small home fountain? I posed this very question to a friend of mine who promptly commented she could not afford a home fountain. Yet, each month she coughs up $125 for “background noise”.   Insanity.

The people I know who use television as background noise, all have some things in common:

1. Impulsive spending and financial issues.
2. Low self esteem and difficulty maintaining relationships.
3. Depressed and angry.
4. Unrealistic views and expectations of the world.
5. Control issues.

Sound like you or someone you know?  Ask yourself a couple of questions:

(1) What area of life am I having trouble in?
(2) Does it resemble a television show I’m watching?

Better yet, ask a friend who you trust to give honest answer.

In order to accomplish a state of higher awareness, we need to cultivate our minds.  Every commercial and show we watch is sending subliminal messages. In order to grow spiritually, we need to clean out the subconscious and bring that part of our mind into alignment with the conscious mind.

Developing our spiritual self requires discipline and an ability to prioritize our lives effectively.  I’m not always quiet. I love to go to parties and spend time with friends. Last week I had a great time at a concert.  We should LIVE our lives, not watch others pretending to live.  Yet the truth remains, to hear our Creator speak to us we need to be still in the peace of quiet.

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Sex and Divinity

March 30, 2012

As a rule, I do not discuss what happens in my bedroom with anyone but my partner. About ten years ago I knew a woman who discussed sex and her personal pursuits publicly. I mentioned to her that maybe she should rethink this behavior because it was her private business.  She promptly labelled me a prude. To make matters worse, she repeated the statement to others including a gentleman I was interested in. The truth, she had no idea how I spent my time in the bedroom.

Admittedly, I had to spend some time thinking about being called a prude. After all, I had  experience in Tantra and sex magick! I thought my partnerships had been safe places for learning and experimenting. After deep thought, and rethinking the stories, I realized her experiences were very mundane and she had been repeatedly left unsatisfied. Name calling was a feeble attempt at personal denial.

There are two types of sex; text book sex and sacred sexuality. They are very different.

Text Book Sex

This is what we see on television and magazines. Its the consummate quickie and the “I want to get in her pants” attitude. The objectification of women and men. An insatiable appetite for a mediocre orgasm. We all know someone screwing a stranger on a regular basis. This type of sex is where we find people who have developed severe behavioral issues like sex addicts and predators. These people have hundreds if not thousands of notches on their belt.

Sacred Sexuality

Sacred sexuality begins with respect and trust. Treating our partner as God or Goddess. Discovering their pleasures – sensuality. Its being vulnerable in our heart and trusting our partner with our body. There is as much spiritual, mental and emotional development in this relationship as physical. In this way, we see the absolute beauty and strength in our partner and ourselves. We trust they will not embarrass, humiliate or cheat on us; we feel safe. We return this respect by offering the same. This type of union takes time to develop, it involves personal accountability. The outcome brings deep fulfillment on every level.

Many times, I’ve heard people brag about having sex on the first date. I’d like to share some reasons why maybe we should rethink this attitude:

Every time we have sex, our energies mix with the other person. We literally create a soul link. Do you want a soul link (karma) with this person?

Having sex with random strangers, shows an inability to control one’s genitals. When a person cannot manage sexual desires there are other areas in life not managed. Do you feel a lack of control?

People have been taught to use sex as a manipulation tool. We all know the phrase use your feminine wiles.  As a women, I see other women inappropriately flirt with married men. These same women cannot understand why their friends are mad or won’t invite them over anymore.  If you know what I’m talking about, ask yourself  “Am I using my femininity to manipulate?

The Buddha said “When we become spiritual, the first thing we need to do is learn how to behave”.

Proper sexual behavior is very important. Did you know,  when an individual has gained control over sexual desires, they are then able to move their energy into raised consciousness and achieve Unity / Christ consciousness.

To all the individuals who have been called a PRUDE, thank you for using discernment and keeping your bedroom experiences private.

I hope this information has helped.

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Wounded World

March 15, 2012

Last night, just before I feel asleep, my consciousness left my body and began to fly. Like a bird, I flew fairly low just above the tree line. Fast and buoyant, I travelled over land and sea, across continents through time zones. As I moved from land to land, I could feel the energy of the people and places. In desolate areas I felt calm but not peace. In locations filled with people, I felt great waves of sadness. In very few areas did I feel anger. Combined, these feelings were so great that I no longer wanted to fly. Yet, I moved on despite my heavy heart.  I called out to the Universe “why do I have to witness this?”.  A gentle breeze replied, “Truth lives within our heart and now you know the hearts of others.”

All around the world, regular folks look for answers. We read books believed to be sacred and pure, and try our best to live by the principals set forth within. Unfortunately, many have been taught to interpret these texts literally. It’s a shame so many rely on others to determine the direction of their moral compass, rather than see the common message within all sacred text.

We allow Ivy league graduates, to run our countries. Most of us follow the laws and entrust these representatives with our money only to discover ivy league schools don’t require graduates to know the difference between a debit and a credit. These officials, represent their self interest, not ours. They wage war, but never send their own children to the front lines. They are elected on lies and live that way.

We rely on an impartial media to inform us of the facts. Sadly, each day the airwaves are filled with personal viewpoints from arrogant newscasters who were born with silver spoons in their mouths.

I believe most people in the world are good, no matter the religious belief. Truly, I believe the world wants peace not war. Everything in the world is sad right now. No matter how hurt your heart is, choose peace and harmony. Ask all governments to lay down the weapons and stop killing everyone. We have enough food, water and power for everyone in the world to be happy.

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Star Light, Star Bright

February 15, 2012

Star light, star bright,
The first star I see tonight;
I wish I may, I wish I might,
Have the wish I wish tonight.

I remember reciting this nursery rhyme as a child, knowing full well if my intention was clear, my dreams would come true. After all, Walt Disney was a great man! As adults, whenever we gaze up at the stars, we become childlike and fantasize about our hopes and dreams. Our minds drift down memory lane. Those twinkling stars pierce our hearts with compassion, bringing a sense of security and hope in the most dire circumstances.

In a moment of deep contemplation, The Star card in Tarot appeared to me. All the dots started connecting immediately, and a new understanding was revealed….

Standing under the stars we feel hope which brings a sense of empowerment. This feeling may last for a few minutes, while other times it fuels our inner fire and changes the landscape of our lives forever. From a spiritual perspective we view The Star as our aspirations, the things we hope and dream of. A place where our imaginations can run wild. In Western Esoteric Study, The Star is referred to as “Tzaddi” a Hebrew word for fish hook. Many times, I studied that fish hook wondering which dream I was trying to catch. Until the realization came..  I am not the fisherman, I am the fish.

Our hopes and dreams can be reality. The next time we stand beneath the stars, quiet the mind, embrace silence and try to hear what the stars are saying.

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I’m Sorry, Please Forgive Me

December 7,  2011

One evening many moons ago, my friend hosted a healing circle. While in circle, we began to talk about the power of forgiveness; of ourselves and others. My friend is very active in Hawaiian Healing techniques and offered an affirmation to help promote the healing process within us:

I love you
I’m sorry
Please forgive me
Thank you

The words are lovely. We chanted several times, enjoyed each others company and left for the evening. On my way home, I focused the affirmation on forgiving myself and  began to repeat it over and over again.

The next day, I decided to continue the affirmation on a mala. Halfway through the mala, the words started to become extremely difficult. At first, an omitted word, next a forgotten line. The barriers were breaking down. After a couple of days, I felt light and free of any blocks.

The mantra worked very well and quickly. I decided to apply it to my life where there was unfinished business. I allowed myself to set the intention and move freely between forgiving another, a situation or myself. This continued for a few weeks, as I would recite whenever I had a free moment. At one point, the energy was clearing so quickly, I had to take an evening for myself and cry out the rest.

This affirmation has become a personal mantra. Several years ago, a friend of mine started to go through a rough time, at the same time my life started to change dramatically. We lost touch. This bothered me for years because this was a very important friend to me. A couple of months ago, I thought I would give this mantra a real test. I contacted this old friend and asked to speak with them. When we connected I said:

I love you
I’m sorry
Please forgive me
Thank you

Missed years immediately drained away. We were both in tears and happy to be re-connected. I am so happy about this. The next day, my friend emailed me and told me they felt their heart had been moved into a higher state of compassion!

Please use these words to forgive yourself and others. Don’t be afraid to say them during an argument with a loved one and repeat them to help heal lost moments.

Peace be with you.

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In Order To Get Rid Of A Demon, We Must Invoke It First

October 11, 2011

It is easy to turn away from situations we are afraid of and ignore things which would force us to take responsibility. Sadly, turning away actually creates regret and ignoring is nothing more than a permission slip for unspeakable acts of cruelty.

Frequently, I hear people say “we are all connected” and yet they remain ignorant regarding problems in their own homes and communities. By doing nothing, we allow these situations to continue. By educating ourselves and taking right action we open a doorway of healing for all living things.

“In Order To Get Rid Of A Demon, We Must Invoke It First”, means for our own soul to grow and burn more brightly, we must look at what we have just turned away from.

If someone says something offensive to us, instead of getting angry, look inward and ask “why does this trigger a reaction inside of me?”.  If you see an image of a sick animal online, don’t turn away, instead ask “how did my non-action allow this to occur?”

You see we are all connected. Sickness and poverty anywhere in the world belong to all of us. So, the next time you see a group protesting, get up off your butt and go find out why they are upset and challenging a system because if that group is losing some of their rights, I guarantee you are too.

I challenge you to invoke the tough questions.
I challenge you to invoke the facts and become part of the solution.
I challenge you to invoke your own inner demons.

With humility and reverence, I ask you to become the highest quality human being you can be. Our earth, Our Oceans, Our Plants, Our Animals and Our Fellow Humans are depending on it.

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A Knight On The Grassy Knoll

September 28, 2011

Last night I had a dream about a Knight standing on a grassy knoll. He looked seven feet tall, dressed all in black and his hand rested gently upon the handle of his sword. To his left, my dog stood next to him. On impulse, I drew my sword and walked toward him. As I approached, he drew his sword.

MeSir, I do not want to fight, I just want my dog.
KnightWhy have you drawn your sword?
MeI am only trying to collect my dog, I do not want to fight.
KnightYou have drawn your sword.

Just then, it hit me like a bolt of lightening!  I was standing in front of a powerful Knight, clumsily holding a weapon I did not know how to properly wield in battle. I did not realize I was preparing to fight, yet my gesture of unsheathing the sword sent a message of war and almost ignited a battle.  Gently, my sword was lowered.

MeKind sir, please forgive my ignorance. Only now do I realize the error in judgement. Truly, my concern was for my dog. I can see he is in no danger.

The Knight slightly nodded his head in acceptance, turned and walked away.

In order to bring our hearts and minds into alignment, we need to tackle our subconscious thoughts. To accomplish this task, we must ask ourselves some uncomfortable questions:

Do we create arguments and fights simply by preparing for them?
Are our perceived threats real or imagined?
Do we say one thing and do another?
Do we honor our word?

The questions above make an interesting contemplation and discussion. I’d love to hear  your feedback!

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Spiritual Reality Check

The challenges we face in the development of our consciousness are not unique to anyone. In fact, its absolutely predictable! Every time I share this information with someone they give me crazy eyes. Maybe it’s because we like to view ourselves as special and unique. The good news … we still can. Our uniqueness is found in our personalities. In my experiences, the raising or lowering of our consciousness happens in direct portion to our efforts in a past or our present life. In any case, it requires quieting the mind, looking inward, learning proper behavior and making better choices.

We all have areas of weakness and strength and its not necessarily our lot in life to awaken like Christ or the Buddha. Yet, our Soul is here to learn and grow. The Venerable once told me “when we learn a TRUTH, we get to keep it in our next life”. This is a powerful statement to the awakening process and a testament to how powerful right word and action can be.

Sadly, in our communities, the holiness of this is overlooked in the shadow of self righteousness and “personal truths”. Incidentally, a “personal truth” is merely a perception.

One of the biggest challenges in the New Age or Spiritual community is that people have a false idea of where their consciousness actually rests. Honestly, in most cases people believe theirs is higher than it actually is. If you want a better idea of where you sit, I encourage you to watch this online movie. “The Five Gateways”.

http://www.openhandweb.org/contents/five_gateways

Enjoy!

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The Necessity and Liberation of Letting Go

September 14, 2011

In July, I felt this strong internal drive to clear out and revitalize my living quarters.  For ten arduous weeks, I cleared useless stuff from every room and closet. Literally, no nook or cranny was left unturned. By August, truck load after truck load departed to St. Vinnie’s and Goodwill. Furniture and boxes of assorted must-have’s were given away or sold. This cleared enough working space that I could now begin to sort through three generations of book boxes. Unloading years of books and memories on Ebay, some lots were huge and sold for pennies. I didn’t care, the desire to release myself from the dogma of previous generations overpowered my sense of profiteering. My soul needed liberation.

As the resultant years of mindless shopping cleared, the cleaning began. Every window washed and bright new window coverings replaced the old. Floors were scrubbed and rugs cleaned or replaced. Paint touched up, small repairs made. The Feng Shui / Vaastu cures re-organized and placed.

I feel clean, renewed and organized.

For some, my experience may sound like a standard spring cleaning, but this went deeper than the floors and walls. The release of so many things gathering dust, also cleaned my mind and heart. Yes, I shed some tears along the way, but it felt natural and needed.

My spirit is renewed and although the daily news is fraught with financial downturn and unemployment, I know I’ll be okay.

I invite you to clean out your house, give away or sell what you can, trade for what you need. Our identities are shifting at this time and to fully embrace the newness, we must quit feeling bad about what we’ve lost and concentrate on what we have.

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The American Dream

July 6, 2011

At 10 p.m. on The 4th of July, I watched another firework celebration begin. For a time, I flashed back to a childhood memory of family and friends. We gathered for bar-be-que hamburgers, kids played in constant anticipation of sparklers and we all sang God Bless America and other patriotic songs. Our heads were filled with the American Dream. The idea that our country is strong and the citizens stronger. As long as Uncle Sam, baseball, hotdogs and apple pie existed life would be good. We did not understand government handouts. We knew it was up to us individually to pull ourselves up by our own “boot straps” and create the life we wanted. Life was simpler, kids could run free, trick or treating yielded record candy collections.  Folks took personal responsibility and everyone helped strangers. Our parents built relationships with the local bank managers, real estate agents, doctors and grocery clerks. Our people understood loyalty, they supported each other.

Today, this sounds like an old fashion fairy tale, but it really did happen in my early life.  Those of us born in the sixties and earlier, remember “stay at home moms” and being expected to be kids.  A fat kid was an anomaly, fast food was a “special” meal out and television had four channels. We only went to the doctor if it couldn’t be cured with home remedies. We played by our parents rules. If we broke a rule, we paid the price – no discussions.

As my thoughts returned to reality and an amazing firework display, I thought about what the sky looked liked to our founding fathers and how times have changed for better and worse …

The most noteworthy, the internet has made it possible for us to communicate in ways unimaginable forty years ago;  we sacrificed privacy for it.  Domestic abuse can finally be discussed; sadly, kids are sexualized almost from the day they are born. Mental illness can be talked about, diagnosed and treated; doctors hand out pills like candy and conveniently forget the prescription for the psychotherapist. Modern medicine can cure or control almost every disease yet the majority of this country is  one medical emergency away from losing everything they own. Our technology  has never been greater, the earth never filthier.

Despite all these challenges, we are still blessed in this country. The United States of America continues to offer the American Dream. However, our boot straps are now built differently. We don’t pull them up anymore, we design their fit through a point and click system.

I’m fortunate to have experienced the strong patriotism and optimism that once filled this country.  The USA is changing. We The People will restore our country. In order to create a “more perfect union” its important to LEARN and KNOW your RIGHTS. This has nothing to do with political affiliation or religious beliefs.
Below please find the Government Archive links to OUR central documents. I have included the most well known paragraph of each document to offer a gentle reminder of what the document represents:

DECLARATION OF INDEPENDANCE
http://archives.gov/exhibits/charters/declaration_transcript.html

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.–That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed,

CONSTITUTION
http://archives.gov/exhibits/charters/constitution_transcript.html

We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.

BILL OF RIGHTS
http://archives.gov/exhibits/charters/bill_of_rights_transcript.html

Amendment I
Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.
Amendment II
A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.

Happy 4th of July and God Bless America!

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James Ray: The Light and Dark Secret

June 28, 2011

A few years ago,  I attended a free seminar offered by James Ray, a charismatic motivational speaker. I watched attentively as he moved the audience into a high state of optimism and a willingness to pay thousands for his retreats, books and CDs.

Being a student of esoteric study, I immediately recognized his sources of inspiration. The first being from a well known book called “The Kybalion, Hermetic Philosophy”.  By adding Native American and Shamanistic principals and practices he created a modern day cookbook of life philosophy tasty to the western palate. He offered huge servings of axioms and charged exorbitant prices. Absolutely brilliant from a business perspective. Eh, not so much from a spiritual perspective.

Being completely aware of his offering and where it came from, I found myself wanting to reach for one of his books. In a split second, I took a deep breath, became aware of my body and realized there was a larger manipulation happening. In the days following, my studies turned to how motivational speakers engage their audience to sell goods and services to folks who had not planned on buying anything. In my research, I discovered mind control techniques were employed. Here are a few for your consideration:

1. Keep the room at a temperature of around  68 degrees.
2. Create a sense of “family” through touch, thought and emotional sharing.
3. Suggest key phrases and words and use them repetitively.
4. Create a chant and encourage everyone to participate.
5. Generate feelings of guilt / finger pointing: exaggerate former lifestyle choices.
6. Encourage the destruction of the ego through confessions of personal weakness.
7. Denounce old values and instill new values in a group setting.
8. Prevent people from being able to think privately.
9. Burn bridges of the past by making a financial commitment today.

These are a sampling of common brainwashing methods. Its noteworthy, these same techniques are also used by religious zealots, cult leaders, military boot camps, schools and in political propaganda, just to name a few.  James Ray used all the above ways in his free seminar.

My personal belief is that Mr. Ray started his journey with the best of intentions. The Secret worked in a positive way – wow – here comes the Mercedes!  However, as his popularity grew so did the demands. Money, power and fame increased. One of “The Secrets” not shared by James Ray is that when you extract from the universe, you also receive the opposite in equal measure. The Law of Attraction, still working, began to attract the qualities of greed and lust Mr. Ray was radiating.

In October 2009, three people lost their lives in a sweat lodge retreat James Ray was conducting. On June 22, 2011, James Ray was convicted on three counts of negligent homicide. As I write this, the sentencing phase is underway. The jury will decide Mr. Ray’s fate, ranging from probation to eleven years. Sadly, Kirby Brown, James Shore and Liz Neuman received a death sentence. Their family and friends, a life sentence.

Lets not allow this to happen again. Please educate yourself on brainwashing and mind control techniques.

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Radiating Loving Kindness

June 21, 2011

Love is defined as tenderness, fondness, warmth, passion, adoration, affection and devotion. All mean a deep and enduring emotional regard, usually for another person or something greater than ourselves.

Love is giving without worrying about what we are getting. Becoming aware or mindful about radiating love is important. In order to become more loving and kind we can practice a meditation called “Metta”. The meditation is simple, it’s a formula expressed in four lines:

May all beings be free from harm and danger
May they be free from mental suffering
May they be free from physical suffering
May they take care of themselves happily.

In order to properly practice this meditation sit in a meditation posture, or sit in a chair with your feet flat on the floor. Keep your body somewhat relaxed and eyes closed. Repeat the lines mentally. Recite for 10 minutes then each time a little longer. 15 minutes, 30 minutes, 1 hour. We are programming the mind to loving kindness. The more we recite, the more and more we will feel ourselves radiating loving kindness.

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